Proverbs Chapter 12 Verse 16
A fool let’s people know when he is angry
But it is not easy to make a wise man angry.
I tell my grandchildren if you let people push your buttons
they will constantly be pushing your buttons.
The Meaning –
When you allow others to manipulate your emotions and reactions, it exposes your weaknesses and can lead to a cycle of frustration. Taking control of your reactions can break this cycle and prevent further escalation.
I am sure we all know someone who walks around angry or with an attitude expecting the world to understand or get over the abuse they may hurl at you when angry.
You Know –
The people where if you say even the wrong thing or look the wrong way, they are ready to carry it to another level or ready to fight.
Let us point out some facts from both sides –
A fool let’s people know when he is angry
The Angry Person
- They always have an excuse for why they blow up
- It is always someone else’s fault
- They never take ownership of their bad behavior
- These traits tend to be the same in children and adults
Guess What!?!
There is help. If you find yourself the angry one, you walk around with the chip on your shoulder.
Ask yourself why? There could be a myriad of reasons. Start peeling back the layers to find out why you are so angry.
It is okay if you feel you may need professional help. That is why God has them here. To help us figure out some things.
But it is not easy to make a wise man angry.
The (Victim)
- They do not trust you
- You are not liked
- You are tolerated
- Labeled a difficult person
Guess What!?!
You do not have to stay this way
You can change that behavior –
Everything we do is by choice – of course, some are easier to change than others. But there is nothing too hard for God. Nothing!
What to Do If You Have a Short Temper (verywellmind.com)
Here are a few suggestions to help you get started
- Anger is an emotion that is manageable.
- Know your limit if you are tired pull away and try to lessen your interactions with others
- Positive Exercises
- Reach out to Loved ones
- Keep a Mood Journal
- See a therapist
What if you live with an angry person?
What To Do When You Live with Angry People: 7 Gentle Tips – Personal Excellence
- Pick your battles
- Pick opportune times to talk to them
- Understand why they are angry
Summing it Up
It’s important to remember that Proverbs 12:16 encourages us to understand that we can learn to manage our emotions, including anger. With determination,
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