The report is titled Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: Understanding the Difference    March 2023

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I can do everything. through Christ who gives me strength.” New living translation. We will use God’s strength to get us through and feel worthy again because we deserve it.

We need to know what things directly influence or can affect our self-worth.

Self-Worth: Influences, Importance, and Strategies to Improve It (verywellmind.com)

According to Dr. Roman-noff, In an article titled “What Is Self-Worth,” these are some of the factors that may influence self-worth:

  • Core beliefs and values
  • Thoughts and feelings
  • Emotions and mental well-being
  • Experiences and interactions with others
  • Relationships, both past and present
  • Health and physical fitness 
  • Career and profession 
  • Activities and hobbies
  • Community and social status 
  • Financial position
  • Physical appearance
  • Childhood experiences
Positive Self-Worth.

The report is titled Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: Understanding the Difference. I spoke earlier on this.

Here’s another source’s definition of positive self-worth, and this is an article titled —

Self-Worth: Influences, Importance, and Strategies to Improve It (verywellmind.com)

 

What Is Self-Worth?

Sanjana Gupta, Verywellmind, says that Self-worth.

 

According to the American Psychological Association (APA), your self-worth is your evaluation of yourself as a capable and valuable human deserving of consideration and respect.1 It is an internal sense of being worthy of love.

https://www.psychalive.org/self-worth

How to Build Self-Worth

The first step in building self-worth is to stop comparing yourself to others and evaluate your every move; (we can be tough on ourselves sometimes); in other words, you must challenge your, critical inner voice.

It’s like a nasty coach that constantly nags us with destructive thoughts toward ourselves or others.

This internalized dialogue of critical thoughts or “inner voices” undermines our sense of self-worth and leads to self-destructive or maladaptive behaviors, making us feel even worse about ourselves.

As Dr. Lisa Firestone explained in her article “7 Reasons Most People Are Afraid of Love.”

We all have a “critical inner voice,” which acts like a cruel coach inside our heads that tells us we are worthless or undeserving of happiness. Painful childhood experiences shape this coach, critical attitudes we were exposed to early in life, and feelings our parents had about themselves. While theseattitudes can be hurtful, they have become ingrained in us. As adults, we may fail to see them as an enemy, instead accepting their destructive point of view as our own.

However, we can challenge the inner critic and begin to see ourselves for who we are rather than take on its opposing viewpoint. We can distinguish from how we were seen in our family of origin and begin to understand and appreciate our feelings, thoughts, desires, and values.

How to Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice

We all possess an inner critic or “critical inner voice.” We experience this “voice” as a negative internal commentary on who we are and how we behave.

Critical inner voices

  • “You’re ugly.”
  • “You’re so stupid.”
  • “You’re fat.”
  • “There’s something wrong with you.”
  • “You’re different from other people.”

Identify Your Inner Critic

Try to identify what your critical inner voice is telling you. Acknowledge that this thought process is separate from your natural point of view. Remember that your critical inner voice is not a reflection of reality. You adopted a viewpoint based on bad early life experiences and attitudes directed toward you that you’ve internalized as your point of view.

Romans 12:2 don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think; then, you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is pleasing and perfect!

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7 responses to “Why Your Self-Worth Matters and How to Build It Up-1”

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    Wonderful ❤️

    Blessed and Happy afternoon 🌅

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      Aww, thank you! It’s always a pleasure to hear from you

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    Kim Dorsey

    Absolutely wonderful!!! Thank you for taking the time to create such a needed platform.

    1. cadeegirl5 Avatar

      Thank you, Kim. I am glad you are enjoying the podcasts, and I agree it is a needed platform. We all have someone that needs a word of encouragement or a little inspiration to get them to that next level. Thank you for sharing. Grace and Peace!

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    Angela McMillan

    My first podcast- was a great and easy listen. we as women tend to put our search for peace to the side, while moving full steam ahead to the job of living and taking care of everyone else. Thank you for reminding us, we’re number 1. Looking forward to the next one.

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      Hi Angela, I’m glad you enjoyed the podcast! You are right as women. We put everything and everyone above our own selves, not realizing that when we do, we are not our best “self.” Part 2 of building up our self-worth will be released on Wednesday.

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