Wisdom of it All

Reasons to Embrace Advice from Those Who’ve Been There

Proverbs Chapter 11

Verse 14 –

The people of a country will fall if it has no wise men to lead it. But the words of many wise men make the country safe.

I believe that we all need advice from time to time. I can remember many times I have gone to my mother for her wise counsel.

I think back and realize that if I had not listened to most of her advice, I would have been in a world of trouble by now, suffering many unnecessary hardships.

The way people are connected is a profound and complex thing. One way we can see this connection is when we need help and advice from others.

Talking to someone we trust who can advise without bias is essential. This means that personal interests do not influence the advice we get, and it helps us see things clearly so that we can make good decisions.

When I was younger, my parents often said, no hat in the race,” to remind me to ask for advice from people who didn’t have anything to gain or lose from the situation.

This means seeking guidance from those who can offer unbiased perspectives. Doing this helps build trust and integrity in the advice we receive, and it helps us form strong and supportive connections with others.

Verse 15 –

If you promise to pay the debt of a stranger, you will be sorry. If you do not promise things like that, you will be safe.

It’s a common truth that getting someone to pay you back can be a daunting task, especially if the person is a complete stranger.

If you’ve recently lent money to someone, whether you could afford it or not, and are now having second thoughts about it, there may be some signs that you should not have signed your name on that loan or loaned the money at all.

Some Signs You Should Not Have Co-Signed or Loaned the Money

• They pretend to have forgotten when it is time to repay the debt.
• They will block you, not answer your calls or stop replying to your text messages.
• And when it looks like they are not going to repay they get the attitude against you for not asking nicely.
• They will make up imaginary excuses not to repay you.
• Or they will try and make you feel guilty for wanting them to repay their debt.

So, I am getting ready to combine these two scriptures.

Verse 14 – The people of a country will fall if it has no wise men to lead it. But the words of many wise men make the country safe.

Verse 15 – If you promise to pay the debt of a stranger, you will be sorry. If you do not promise things like that, you will be safe.

My advice is if you do not have it to give do not loan it.
Never loan your last
Never loan your bill money
Do not co-sign for anyone.
If they do not have the money now more than likely they will not have it later.
I am just saying.

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QUOTES

Remember, the best way to keep a friend is to avoid becoming their personal ATM. Set clear boundaries and stick to them.

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You can’t put a price on friendship, but you also can’t afford to lose your hard-earned cash. Politely decline and suggest alternative ways to help.

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When your friends ask for money, don’t let guilt or obligation sway your decision. Stay true to your financial goals and priorities.

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