It’s usually hard for me to identify what I like about myself. Don’t get me wrong, I like myself and I like what I’m doing and who I’ve become.
But when it comes down to it, I am uncomfortable saying nice things about myself to others.
Go figure.
So, I decided to conduct some quick research to see if I’m the only one who feels that way, or if I have more issues than I thought. LOL
I typed in “Do people like bragging about themselves?” An AI overview suggested that people often brag about themselves to boost their self-confidence, seek validation, or feel superior to others or those with different cultural backgrounds. Okay.
The AI overview goes on to say that bragging can be problematic for the following reasons
- Social isolation
- Negative perception
- Distorted self-image
- Damaged relationships
I am beginning to understand that there can be a negative stigma associated with bragging about oneself. Perhaps I was exposed to many people boasting about themselves when I was growing up or as a young adult (when insecurities are typically at their highest), which may have led me to be cautious about expressing anything positive about myself.
I know in some cases it is good to say good things about yourself for instance when you are applying for a position.
However, I would guess, like anything else, it should be done in moderation.
I then typed in ‘When is it good to say something positive about yourself?’ and AI Overview gave me a list of different answers.
It suggests that regularly saying something positive about yourself is beneficial. This can boost your self-esteem and confidence. And that you should incorporate this into your life.
When facing Challenges
Celebrating Achievements
Building Confidence
Sharing Positivity
In conclusion, it's good to share positive qualities or accomplishments; just be humble, kind, and express gratitude.My favorite thing about myself that makes me happy
I can now answer the question.
What I like about myself is how I reason through things. I can think through a situation before acting or reacting.
Okay, that wasn’t so hard.
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Cadeegirl Gee
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